1. Gender identity is not sexuality.

2. 99.9% of the population are not cis. At least 1% are trans, non-binary, or otherwise not cis.

3. You say "This pressure is unacceptable for the ... cis." Few if any cis persons feel pressure from the questions, "Am I really a girl? Am I really a boy?" They have no doubts about what they are so there is no pressure.

4. Please do not use the term "cisnormal," which I have never heard before. You are implying that to be cis is to be normal, but we know that there is no normal, we have a wonderful natural diversity of gender identity and gender expression.