As an LGBT person, "opposite" sex marriages seem so strange! Why would you want to share your life with someone so fundamentally different than you? Same-sex relationships make much more sense. Of course there is the matter of sexual preference. But why should you base you life-partnership on that? Until such a time comes as men learn to be emotionally available, why don't hetero women marry hetero women (and hetero men marry hetero men), but agree to satiate their sexual appetites outside of the primary relationship? Just trying to be helpful here and think out of the box.