Spoken like a true sexist piggy! No, I’m just kidding. This one really is no big deal, it’s certainly not a hill I’m willing to die on. But I believe an important point is that the objects of the offense — in this case, women — are better able to judge the offense than the offender. In the extreme (which this is definitely not!), find me a wife beater who doesn’t say she deserved it. Again, I expect you’re a great guy and very respectful of women, Attila, and I enjoy reading you. But, as I read that particular line, I reflexively winced. Take that as you will.