Wow, Arthur, what dump! And I mean that in several ways. Now I understand why you take all those car trips all over. Whew, all that, and now civilization is collapsing on you. I wish you much joy in your day to day. Hey, things could be worse. You could still be in the closet. <wry smile> Ah, to imagine a society that fully embraced queer people: You would never have been in the closet, and so never have married that bitch. It would have been men who fucked you over. <another wry smile>